Okay, I am a little Peeved at Y/A!?

First of all, there was a "question" it was a very generous, charitable guy that for every star he received he was going to donate a $1 equivalent to a needy family for Christmas. So I posted a link in 3 different categories to this "question." MY "questions" were NEVER even posted (-5) HIS LINK/QUESTION was deleted. Now, my 3 questions, that NEVER posted to begin with, got a "violation notice" and deleted (-10) And in my violation email under reason for violation: IT SAID NOTHING!! (so I got 15 points x 3 taken away, I am quite upset.) I appealed the violations , so far NO RESPONSE..can anyone tell me what I 'did wrong?'